How can you know if and when your soulmate is thinking of you?
More traditional experts will tell you that it’s when you get hiccups, goosebumps, keep on sneezing, dream about your soulmate and keep on thinking about them, etc.
These kinds of signs can absolutely be true! But these were all ways of telling your soulmate is thinking about from before the smartphone era.
You see, our devices offer a much greater insight into our minds than most of us realize!
Not only can they reveal what someone might be thinking about, but they also allow for people to deduce a lot about each other from their behavior online.
All the signs mentioned in this post are things our coaching clients keep on getting baffled by. They are extremely common. Yet they’re not often spoken about…
They’re all very real, tangible ways of recognizing that your soulmate is thinking of you in 2022.
1. Your Phone Battery Keeps on Draining Very Fast
When you truly deeply care about someone, you often miss them throughout the day. One way how your soulmate can feel closer to you without actually getting in touch is by checking your location.
So if you’ve been feeling guilty about stalking your soulmate’s location, don’t!
They are likely doing it to you too! Everybody does it!
It’s a way of checking in with someone, without actually revealing that you’re doing it.
Well there is one way to tell when somebody does it…
You see, checking someone’s locations actually drains their battery.
So if your phone keeps on dying unreasonably fast sometimes, know it’s a sign your soulmate is potentially thinking of you and checking where you’re at.
2. Your Soulmate Posts Something Romantic
Another typical sign that your soulmate is thinking of you is when they post something romantic. This could mean a photo of the sunset, a song, quote etc.
Even though it might be a public post available to all of their friends or followers, it was made with a particular person in mind. It’s a way of expressing their feelings and reaching out to you indirectly.
It’s a definite sign your soulmate is thinking of you and likely missing you in that very moment.
3. They Post a Lot, in General
This is another variation of the previous sign. Some people have a harder time expressing romantic feelings. This is why they might keep their posts more neutral.
Social media is a great channel for getting attention.
So if your soulmate has been posting a lot more lately, know that they might be doing it because they are thinking of you and trying to impress you.
4. You Keep On Bumping Into Each Other
This is another classic behavior that’s extremely common, but people still get surprised by it.
Have you unexpectedly bumped into your soulmate recently and thought to yourself: “What are the odds? Clearly, the universe wants us to be together.”
Well, it’s not just the universe who is making this happen….
Technology nowadays allows us to predict where a person is going to be without arranging for them to be there.
Maybe your soulmate checked your schedule or the events you are going to.
If they unexpectedly bumped into you, it’s not necessarily a coincidence.
It could also be a sign that they are thinking of you and wanted to maximize their chances of seeing you again.
5. They Like Your Old Posts on Social Media
This is another classic soulmate behavior that leaves people puzzled and confused:
Has your special someone recently liked some really old posts of yours?
Maybe this made you wonder: “Why would they do this? Did they really scroll through my profile this far back?”
Checking out someone’s social media profile allows you to feel closer to them without having to reach out. It’s also a way to learn more about a person.
So if your soulmate liked some really old posts of yours recently, know that it’s a sign they are thinking of you and craving to feel closer.
6. They’re the First Person to React to Your Posts
When you deeply care about someone, you’re also very eager to express your support and appreciation for that person.
One way your soulmate can do this is by quickly reacting to everything you post.
It’s a sign they are thinking of you, maybe even hovering over your profile, waiting to hear from you again.
7. They Know Things About You, You Haven’t Told Them About
When you’re really in love with someone, you’re desperate to get to know them better. But it’s not always easy to ask them questions directly.
Our online presence as well as our friends are like a database of information about us.
If your soulmate knows things about you, you haven’t told them about, it’s a sign that they are thinking of you, studying your social media or talking to your friends about you.
What Does a Soulmate Connection Feel Like?
I hope you enjoyed these very real 7 signs your soulmate is thinking of you in 2022. Meeting your soulmate can be extremely exhilarating. But at the same time, it can be very vulnerable to feel this way about another person.
It’s only natural for you to want to be sure that your soulmate cares and is thinking of you just as much as you are.
This kind of connection tends to be a bit of a rollercoaster, with lots of ups and downs.
Ultimately, though, what makes it so special is this deep sense of understanding you likely feel with this other person. It just feels right and things fall into place.
A soulmate connection feels like home.
Despite all the uncertainties, you have a feeling of peace, safety and security because you know how special and rare it is to feel this way about someone.
And on a different note, the whole topic of soulmates can actually be a rather difficult one. This is why down below I’m going to address some questions you guys have been asking about.
Do Soulmates End up Together?
This is something I was asking myself when my husband and I started dating. I knew that we had a very special connection, but I wasn’t sure if it meant that we will get together or not and if it was going to last.
Intense feelings tend to trigger a lot of emotions. This is why soulmate relationships tend to be accompanied by a certain degree of drama.
So much so, it might even lead to breakups, especially in the first few years of the relationship.
Have you been pouring your heart and soul into making something work, only to have most of your efforts fall flat, leaving you frustrated and wondering: when is enough, enough?
Regardless whether it’s a job, relationship, marriage, friendship, a relative or something entirely different that is draining you this way, it’s important to recognize the right time to give up and let go.
There is no point investing more into something that is never going to work out!
But at the same time, you have to be certain you gave it your best and did everything you possibly could. This way, you can avoid having regrets about this further down the road.
I’ve been in this situation countless time myself, so I know how hard it is to be on the verge of saying: “Enough is enough!”. Giving up on someone or something you put a lot of effort into is always heartbreaking.
It might make you question if it was all for nothing. Or if you were deceived and what you thought was real, turned out not to be true. These are all extremely difficult things to face.
But at the same time, sometimes you have to be willing to let go of the outcome in order to actually get what you want out of a situation, or get your message across in a relationship.
Sometimes it takes you walking away for other people to cave in and snap out of their stubborn frame of mind.
This is a bit of a paradox I will come back to at the end of this article, but first let’s cover how to recognize when is enough, enough.
How Do You Know When Enough Is Enough?
It’s not easy to know the right time to let go of something or someone. It’s hard to give up on things you’ve invested a lot into. Also, these kinds of decision sometimes carry irreversible consequences.
For example, quitting a job might mean losing this work environment forever.
In the same way, giving up on a relationship might mean that it will be the end of it.
This is why I’ve prepared a list of signs to help you recognize when enough is enough. This way, you can know you’re in a hopeless situation, and it’s time to let go of it.
1. Enough Is Enough When You’re the Only One Making Things Work
Any interpersonal relationship needs to be mutual in order to remain healthy.
Regardless whether this is about your job, family, friendship or romantic relationship, if you’re the only person who is putting in the effort into keeping things going, know that you’re being taken for granted.
The world is a tough place, and you are your own best protector. You have to stand up for yourself and not let other people endlessly use you.
So if you’re the only glue that keeps things together, it’s likely time to say: enough is enough! It’s not healthy for you to stay in a situation where you’re being used all the time.
You deserve better!
2. When You Keep On Blaming Yourself for Everything
Another tell-tale sign that it might be the time to say enough is enough, is when you keep on blaming yourself and taking responsibility for everything that isn’t going right.
For example, if you don’t feel valued at work and haven’t gotten a raise in a while, maybe you’re thinking: “Oh I’m just not trying hard enough plus they really don’t have the money to give me a raise at the moment…”.
In the context of a romantic relationship or an unhealthy family situation, an example of this would be you constantly making excuses and blaming yourself for your loved one’s outbursts.
But if you’re walking on eggshells and blaming yourself for everything that is going wrong, know that it’s not good for you to tolerate this kind of treatment.
Your needs matter.
Moreover, someone else’s problems don’t justify them lashing out at you or denying you things.
If this is your situation, it might be a sign that enough is enough, it’s time for you to let go and make a change.
3. When You Never Get What You Want
Another way to tell when enough is enough is if you feel like you can never have what you want.
This might be a position at your job that keeps on being given to somebody else, that trip you’ve been wanting to go on with your significant other for years, or having your boundaries respected and your needs and acknowledged.
Maybe you’ve been longing for certain things for so long, you might be already coming to terms with never even getting what you want.
I used to struggle with this one in regard to getting enough attention from people. I kept on waiting for them to finally start thinking of me, only to be disappointed over and over again.
Eventually I grew tired of begging for attention and realized enough is enough. I will never have what I want if endlessly just keep on waiting for people to give it to me.
I had to let go of hoping that things will change by themselves and changed them myself.
So if you feel like you can never get what you want, it’s a sign that enough is enough. It’s time for you to give up hoping and waiting, and go and get what you want yourself.
4. Enough is Enough When You Tried Everything Already
One way to know enough is enough is when you feel like you’ve tried your best to fix a problem or a relationship. But despite all of your efforts, things still aren’t working out.
So you’re at a loss of what to do next.
Because it feels like you just run out of options at this point!
Some situations truly are hopeless. Unfortunately, you can’t force certain things to happen. Especially when other people are involved.
Maybe it just wasn’t meant to be…
Dwelling on this will only bring you more pain. When there is nothing more you can do, it’s a sign that enough is enough.
It’s time to cut your loses and let go.
Especially when you love someone, it’s hard to face that things might be over for good. But if they truly care about you, it’ll be a wake-up call for them, and they’ll fight for you.
5. When You Decide That Enough Is Enough
Last but not least, you don’t have to wait for all the signs to fit your situation to know when to let go of something.
Maybe this isn’t your first time facing this type of difficulties. So even though, things might not be that bad just yet, you know where they are headed.
Or maybe things are really hard for you, but you still feel guilty.
You might worry that giving up and saying enough is enough might mean that you didn’t really care about this thing or person you’re so frustrated with.
The thing is, you don’t have to stay committed to something or someone who is making you miserable. It’s ok to give up.
You can decide for yourself that enough is enough.
If deep down you feel this way, you can trust your instinct and respect your own limits.
At What Point Is Enough Enough in a Relationship?
All the signs mentioned above absolutely apply to relationships too. But on top of all these things, I want to discuss this paradox that I briefly mentioned in the introduction already:
Sometimes it takes saying enough is enough and letting go, for your partner to cave in and finally come your way.
I made this experience countless time in my own relationship! Whenever I push my husband to give me something, he will often remain resistant to all my efforts.
But when I let go of trying to control the outcome and give him a choice instead, more often than not, he will choose to give me what I want!
So saying enough is enough in relationship can actually be a good thing.
Because it can help you break out of your own self-defeating patters!
I’ve observed the same mechanism when coaching people on how to fix their relationship problems or get their ex back.
When you love someone, it’s often harder to say enough is enough. It actually forces you to face certain difficult truths about them. That they’re not exactly the person you wanted them to be.
But coming to terms with things the way they are can often be a pivotal moment that can turn everything around and heal a relationship.
So don’t think that saying enough is enough will be the end of your relationship, because it’s generally the opposite. It’s staying miserable and letting grudges pile up that leads to people slowly losing interest and growing apart.
When Is Enough Enough in a Marriage?
The same rules that apply to relationships, also apply to marriage. With the difference being that it’s much harder to end a marriage than it is to break up.
It might feel like saying enough is enough to your spouse will be the end of things.
But it doesn’t generally work this way.
People tend to think in extremes.
I’m guilty of this myself too. I often dramatize that me giving up on something will be the end. But saying enough is enough and coming clean with where I’m really at often becomes a fresh beginning.
So don’t think that you deciding to let go will be the end of your marriage. What it might end up being is the very thing that saves it instead!
If after reading all this, you still feel stuck and don’t know what to do, this is something we can help you with in a one-on-one coaching call.
Here, either me or my husband Gabriel will listen to you and help you recognize if your situation really is hopeless or not.
We’ll then give you tips on what to do to test things, so that you can be sure you’re making the right choice.
Looking for cute questions to ask your boyfriend to make him express things and fall in love with you more?
In this article, I’ll give you lots of ideas of various things you can talk with him about.
I’ll divide this list into a few sections:
Cute Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
Cute and Flirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
Romantic Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
Deep Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
Cute Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend Over Text
But before jumping into the particular cute things you can ask him, I first want to outline a very important principle when it comes to this!
This is something, many other relationship experts tent to overlook, but it can make a world of difference in your relationship.
When asking your boyfriend cute questions, try to make it about him and not about yourself.
Asking your boyfriend things that are revolving all around you will make you come across as self-absorbed and needy.
This is why, you want to avoid saying things like: “What do you like most about me?” or “Do you think about me during the day?”.
Shifting your focus to him and asking him genuine questions, on the other hand, will make him perceive you as caring and will inevitably deepen his emotional attachment towards you.
All the examples listed below fit these criteria.
Cute Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
This is a list of lighthearted, charming things to ask a guy. They are slightly flirty but in an unassuming, innocent way. They are the perfect thing to say as an icebreaker or even when you’re just bored.
You’ll need to gently but clearly communicate your limits to your avoidant.
If they are too scrutinizing and suspicious of you, or they aren’t responding to your texts for a week, then it’s important to also set boundaries for yourself.
And if your avoidant CARES ENOUGH about the relationship, they will try to make ends meet.
So that sums up the 11 best ways to get an avoidant to chase you, here they are again:
1. Don’t chase them
2. Adapt to their slow pace
3. Be prepared for their communication quirks
4. Let them be distant
5. Be reliable
6. Give them enough space
7. No pushing
8. Prove your trustworthiness
9. Let them make the next step
10. Be a source of encouragement
11. Communicate your limits
If you’d like any help with getting through to an avoidant so that they finally pursue you, you can check out our one-on-one coaching calls both my wife and I offer.
Here, we’ll give you tailored advice and tips to navigate what can feel like walking on eggshells with your avoidant, so that you can get through to them.
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